The Tantric Massage massage – Urban legend or Reality?

For the next couple of weeks I am going to write a serial of short articles about myths and realities about tantric massage that probably you hear more than once.

There is not a secret that magic words have been used with none sense for some massage partitioners or that many explanations have been given for someone with not enough experience as a masseuse, not to mention as a ‘erotic therapist‘ or ‘Tantra goddess‘.

the mystic of tantric massage

According to one of the masters I studied with, Massage is 25% technique and 75% experience. A young massage partitioner will learn many different things at once while doing her training as a massage therapist, some of those thing he will never remember on a life time, other he will forget after one week and suddenly with no reason, after years, one day it comes to your mind but, somehow, it is useful for a present personal or professional situation. It is normal, nothing wrong, is just part of the learning process and how a massage therapist develops her own technique or better to say, her own way to approach different situations with different clients. First, one absorb all the information, second that information is process and last is storage on your hardware till is need it.

Reason why a good massage therapist is the one in tune with herself and able to empathize with her clients not the one with one hundred workshops certificates framed all over the walls (half of those are a 3 hours workshop in crystals and there you go, you are a master crystals therapist, not that simple ). A good therapist is the one who made therapy to herself till the last bone on her body before he practice with anyone else.

If we talk about erotic massage for men or sensual massage for men, the massage techniques we use are mostly the same that for any other massage but the sensibility you need as a masseuse, the grade of empathize you need in order to reach and connect with your client, the knowledge of the body language you precise to understand what is happening and is need without being told it is not comparable with a regular therapeutic massage and that cannot we taught, you have it or you do not!.

Now, if we talk about Tantric massage for men you need all the above plus many years of practice and study of Chakras, energies, holistic massage, yoga, personal development, tantric philosophy for a Tantric masseuse is a style of life, as a therapist no one does Tantra massage, you are a tantric person, your approach to life is tantric, you eat, breath, dream and behave differently to the rest because you incorporate the Tantric philosophy into your life, if not does not work, is not real. Tantra it is not a bottom you switch own and off and you are or you are not!.

Does Tantric massage includes ‘everything’?

Hello Guys, I’m Tiffany, tantric goddess working with Tantric paradise London. Today I’d like share with you some of my understanding of ‘tantric massage’ .

I often receive calls asking me for my rates and after I answer this, I am asked if the rate is ‘for everything’. Everything? It could mean many things, from the services I provide to towels to even expecting me to iron your clothes at the same time. I am not a dummy and I know many ‘erotic masseuses’ offer sexual services and many of them charge for these services (usually known as full service massage in London erotic massage industry) on the side. Well, my dear friends, not in my case.

sexy therapist - Tiffany

sexy therapist – Tiffany

I provide Sensual massage, Erotic nude massage and tantric massage for men. The service is a full massage service, which includes erogenous areas and genitals, to your relief, and this is performed with an open mind and more or less flexibility depending on the situation, but the rates do not include any type of intercourse and there is not any rate for sexual service. There are basically six different rates based on the massage service type, Sensual, Erotic massage, more intimacy as in Tao massage and tantric massage, and based on the duration of the service, 1h, 1h30 or 2h. Other than that there is overcharge for late hour bookings (from 12am till 8am) as well as for out calls, but I am an erotic female masseuse not an escort. (In case you are looking for an escort, you can visit Cloud9 escort , Punternet or Top escort book to find one)

I do not have rates for sexual intercourse as I do not provide this service. If any time in the past I went further and I got involved in a more intimacy activity with any of my clients, it was totally outside the service and as personal choice.

There are no hidden charges for my services. I do not charge for the use of towels, shower, etc… therefore I believe my rates are very straightforward. You are welcome always to seek clarification as you need it, but please do not be ambiguous with your questions in order to avoid misinterpretations or disappointments.

There are so many information across internet and it is easy to confuse between escort and massage, to learn more about the difference between erotic massage and escort services, I recommend you to read: https://www.erosmassagelondon.com/core-differences-between-escort-meetings-and-erotic-massages/ by Eros Massage London UK. ( ps. I found out that some of Eros massage therapists might also offer escort services / full services )

Psychological Effects of Sensual Tantric Massage

In our massage parlour branch at Victoria page, we have listed a group of Physical effects that authentic tantric massage will brings to you. This time, allow me to present our latest research result – Psychological Effects of Sensual Tantric Massage
Sexual energy and sensuality is a very positive force which can transform your mental-emotional wellbeing, and a sensual Tantric massage as a Spiritual Journey can lead it.

Learning to Receive
Becoming more receptive through sensuality, we also become more receptive to life.

Confidence
The opposite sex is often sexually attracted to us not through looks or personality but through sensing strong and healthy sexual energy in us. By empowering your sexual field through sensual Tantric massage you emanate this aura to which others will unconsciously respond.

Self Acceptance and Love
London Tantric massage for you cultivates love to yourself and self-acceptance which will have a positive effect on your relations with people.

Self-Esteem
We are used to evaluating ourselves by comparison to others. How you see yourself is more important than how others see you. My sensual Tantric massage will show you the immense beauty that resides inside you, a beauty noone can take away from you. You learn to relate to yourself as a one-to-one, less dependant on someone else’s opinion. You get more sexual and sensual confidence.

Stress-Relief
Our sensual Tantric massage is a sort of guided meditation in sexuality, a state of deep relaxation and mental silence while bathing in pleasant sensations. It has a relaxing, rejuvenating and cleansing effect on your mind. Through your sensuality you can also learn to stay relaxed and go with the flow.

Creativity
Sexual energy is strongly linked to our creative energy. A healthier, well-balanced sexual energy gives new life to creative process.

Youthfulness
A strong sexuality and sensuality make a man more vibrant and alive, giving her a more youthful aura and outlook.

Balanced Emotions
Sensuality and sexuality are strongly linked to the man’s emotions. In the profound mediation of Tantric massage and positive energy of pleasure your emotions get balanced and negativity is cleansed.

Anti-Depressant
The effect of a sensual Tantric massage on your hormonal and nervous systems, plus the positive vibrations of sexual energy, act as a powerful anti-depressant.

When you in London, where can you get a Tantric massage?

We at tantric paradise massage parlour offers many different tantric sessions for clients, we have several massage parlours located in London for you to visit,  and you can also choose outcall massage service for  convient and better experience. You can find other tantric massage parlour information at London tantric massage guide.

Tao Massage – Sexual Massage service

Tao Massage or Taoist massage is a healing massage where your sexual, creative energy is built up and harnessed to re-energise the body, mind and soul. It is very similar to Tantric massage but less intense and without the learning process you obtain from the Tantric massage.

Tao massage is more a physical experience, and at Tantric Paradise sensual Massage London is offered as an alternative to the Tantric massage service and for those with an interest in a massage with more physicality than a sensual massage.

tantric massage types

tantric massage types

Tao massage could lead to an altered state of mind conducive to spiritual insights. It is a spiritual practice with a physical component which stimulates and delivers your sexual creative energy throughout your body. The massage is given with an attitude of harmony and gentleness, every movement is slow and gets deeper as the receiver moves into a state of deeper relaxation.

The Erotic components of a Tao massage are the caring touch and the proximity of another body; the twist at Eros London Sensual Massage is to offer Tao massage in the nude, so the contact is direct, as with Californian massage, the focus of Tao massage is on the need to feel the human contact, the proximity of another male body to yours and the caring gentle touch of the therapist.

During a London Tao massage session, beautiful masseuse will use all her body, which means that during a full session you will not just feel the energy through the hands but rather through her whole body. Movements are slow, gentle but firm, and the work is intense and deeper without any pain or discomfort.

There are many benefits of a Tao massage but probably the most significant are those on an emotional level. A professional Tao massage therapist will guide you in order to achieve those, which are fundamental to achieving a total relaxation. The Tao massage is at its most beneficial when we are not aware or expecting nothing. Tao is about the emptiness of the intention and the total surrender.

Tao philosophy is based on the present state of mind, totally alert of what is happening around us without any intervention from us. Remaining in our centre, we become a viewer and we remain passive, surrender and accepting everything around us. A Taoist practitioner will have as the biggest challenge to arrive at that state of emptiness, but not in the sense of being lost, if anything the opposite. The total essence of activity is very difficult to achieve because we have a tendency to try, is natural for us to try to be silent, and try to be silent, try to keep our mind quiet, try to… is already even a huge effort for Tao because while we are trying we are active, we are doing something even when we try to do nothing, and the clue is to understand that nothing means nothing, and by nothing we mean exactly that, nothing.

During a Tao massage session we aim to achieve the same for both of you, by both of you I mean masseuse and client, we share that nothingness and it is when we do so that the sexual creativity energy flows free within us at the three levels, physical, mental and spiritual, with the freedom needed in order to obtain all the benefits from a Tao massage session.

erotic tantric massage goddess

erotic tantric massage goddess

This means masseuse will do nothing more than lay her hands over your back and remain there for the following hour? No, not at all, but as a Taoist practitioner . She will let things happen without any intention, which does not mean there is not meaning and intention behind, it means that she will channel during the session and things will happen without questions, without thinking what I should do next. The hands of a Taoist Massage Therapist will freely flow over your body where they are needed but the whole process is somehow unconscious, there is nothing planned. Unlike other massage techniques, the masseuse is not trying to guess what you need, he just goes with the flow in his own present state of mind.

Tao massage has a very strong spiritual, mystical component; very similar to Reiki where the practitioner channels an energy, let’s call it Universal energy, without any intention, through his hands he is able to channel this energy which comes in contact with your body, within yourself, will go where is needed, the practitioner is a facilitator but he does not have the control of the healing process. During a Tao massage session, the principle is the same but there is more contact between masseuse and client, the healing and the energy is supported also by the touch, and the energies we are trying to activate are the sexual energies.

Creative sexual energy? Yes, creative. It is not like you are going to paint like Picasso, but I can tell you Picasso’s sexual energy is in his work. Sexual energy and creativity go hand in hand, and when they are not that is just sex, animal sex, a primary need. During a Tao massage session, you will connect with this creative sexual energy, it is not about sex if not about sensuality, it is not about sex if not sensuality. Man, especially straight man, is more in contact with the practical side of his mind, he feeds because he is hungry, he drinks because he is thirsty and he has sex because he is horny. Of course that is a generalisation, but as with any generalisation, it applies to the majority of the population and it has become a habit, we see it as normal to the extent that we cannot understand there is more than that; why will you drink if you are not thirsty? Why should we eat if we are not hungry? And why … let’s keep it correct. The point is not to do nothing if you do not feel the need, the question is, why not obtain a bigger pleasure than just cover your needs? Talking about sex, nowadays there are many men addicted to porn or sex but the reason behind this is because they just cover a basic need, and by doing so, obviously, the satisfaction will not last longer, after only one hour, two, one day, they will feel again the need. When we learn to use our creative sexual energy the experience could be so intense and so fulfilling that the need to have it often will disappear. Let’s say you are hungry and you just eat a candy bar, maybe after you are not hungry anymore, but one hour two hours later you will be and probably you will feel weak because your body needs the nutrients of a good meal. Sex, plain sex, is like the candy bar when you are hungry, yes you will feel satisfied at that moment but the urge to have sex again will hunt you again very soon, and your mind should feel as empty as before. I am not talking about getting a big head or in love, my morals are not that high, I am talking about exploring and living your sexuality as a unity, body, mind and spirit.

Tao massage heals all those bad habits, teaches us there are more behind that we can remember, Tao massage connects us again without sexuality, our body our sexual creativity without censorship, without questions. Tao massage London is an experience between you and your female masseuse where you will connect with your creativity in order to improve your sexuality.

A Romantic Sensual Birthday Massage

I will remember that birthday gift for long…

It was hot day in London, 3rd of July – my birthday. I had a call from Carl – my best friend and also my business partner. We are personal financial advisors. He told me that I must take his client, because he got too many on his head, apologized me, and hang out. In few minutes I was sitting in a car, reading message with address. It was somewhere in London. ..

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A Guest interview – Alex – Tantric Paradise

How long have you been a member at Tantric paradise Temple?
I think you’re in a better position to know the answer to that one! But several years definitely. At least 3 or 4.

How did you come across our temple?
It must have been online I think. I was interested in having a tantric massage, and though I didn’t know a huge amount about it before… I mean I’d had sensual massages in capital, some of which had been called “tantric” but, well, they weren’t… I just felt drawn to you guys.

Do any of your experiences here particularly stand out for you?
Each visit is so varied, but then at the same time it isn’t different, in that there is a core, pervading feeling of love, peace, harmony and connection with both the masseuse and something on a much bigger scale; the divine, actually.

Have you noticed any lasting effects after the massages?
After every erotic massage there is a lasting effect. There is a kind of short term effect, in terms of several days, of feeling much more positive, more energized, more relaxed, happy. And cumulatively it’s had, and it has, a very positive effect on my emotions, my health, my relationships, both romantic relationships and in general! Everything is more harmonious and easy. Not to say its always plain sailing, but overall the effects are extremely positive and wide ranging.

Have your experiences at Tantric paradise changed the way you see yourself or the world around you?
It’s a constantly evolving thing I think, much of which is probably still at an unconscious level which makes it difficult to put into words, but you know, I do feel that it’s a journey of sorts, an ongoing process of improving both my inner well being and my interaction with the world.

As a man, is the way that you relate to the world, to women even, different since visiting the temple? Does the world look more beautiful?
Oh definitely yes! I mean there do seem to be an amazing number of fantastically beautiful women around! Particularly here I have to say!… but also elsewhere too. I haven’t focused too much on this aspect but I suspect it has helped me be more masculine and to emphasize those qualities more. But also I feel more balanced overall between the masculine and the feminine.

There is a common preconception that tantric massage is about sexual relief, maybe just for those who don’t have a partner. Do you have an opinion about that?
Well, as it’s practiced here, it isn’t like that at all. I think its for anybody who wants to become a better person, become a more evolved person… more aware of who they are and the world around them, and to gain a better understanding possibly of God. I think no matter what your personal religious or philosophical beliefs are you will get a lot out of coming here. The spiritual aspects are a very individual and personal thing and there is room left here to explore more in that direction if you choose. You can benefit on all kinds of levels, but the key is to come being open to the experience itself from which many seemingly abstract things can be felt personally. Definitely it’s for everyone and it’s not about ‘sex’ in the way that most people perceive it.

You did some of the initiations here. Are you able to apply them in your personal and erotic life?
Yes, but I want to do more for sure. I’ve done the first four initiations, and after each one there was a period of practicing the techniques given more consistently, but I would like to make some time to revisit the notions. The importance of sexual continence is becoming more and more clear, and I intend to put more emphasis on that.

Do you have a message for any men who might be considering having a London tantric massage and are unsure?
Yes. Do it. None of the girls bite so far as I can tell 🙂 and it’s just the most amazing experience. This is a beautiful place, and the moment you walk in the door you feel you are entering a different realm. The welcome you get is beautiful, positive and relaxed, and the massage itself is just heavenly. The only thing I would say is that once you start you may not be able to stop! So you’ll need to be prepared to build it into your life. At least once a week I would say!

The welcome you get is beautiful, positive and relaxed, and the massage itself is just heavenly.

Interview of guest by Anaelle

Tantric Massage for Women

Our male masseur is very experienced and have completed many years of studies in Tantra.
Tantric Paradise’s London tantric massage can create miracles and is by far the most effective massage we have ever worked with.

Erotic Tantra massage for women:

the erotic tantric massageBefore starting you will have a little talk with the masseur where he explains what is going to happen and what you can expect to experience during the massage and after. A feeling of safety and trust are important keywords to us and everything will happen at a slow pace always leaving you the possibility to say stop if you experience the slightest unpleasant feeling.( learn more about tantric  massage for men)

During the massage you will be naked while the masseur is wearing shorts. You will be massaged with nice scented high quality oil all over the body alternately using firm strokes and soft caresses. The treatment awakens and unblocks the sexual energies, it helps lifting and distributes them so they do not remain focused in the sexual area only. In this way you will experience your entire body becoming more sensitive and orgasmic. (read more about the yoni massage and tantric massage here).
Finally you will rest a bit and afterwards there is time for water and fruit and a little talk.

Sensual massage:

A very affective, deeply relaxing massage that is given with gentle feather-light strokes of the fingertips. The entire body is caressed, but the touch is not sexual.
The sensual massage brings you back to your true nature. It awakens and heals the energies of the heart and opens you up to both giving and receiving love. It removes stress and psychic tension and leaves you in a state of deep love.

During the sensual massage you will be naked while the therapist is wearing shorts.

Duration:
Approximately 2 hours

Prices:
tao , tantric massage or sensual massage:
– 120 £ simple (2 hands)
– 240 £ double (4 hands)
– for every 5 sessions, the sixth one is our free present for your fidelity (during a period of 2 months starting with the first session)

relaxation massage:
– 100 £ simple (2 hands)
– 200 £ double (4 hands)

* please note that the prices are different from a country to another.

No sexual intercourse is taking place in this tantric massage.

If you are looking for any other types of erotic massage service in London please visit our full list of erotic massage sessions.

Tantric Massage for Men

An Erotic body to body massage:

A very sensual and intimate massage that releases sexual blocks and tensions (inhibitions). The affectionate way this massage is given opens up the heart and secures ability to love and feel loved for both giver and receiver.

Through this massage you can learn to have orgasm without ejaculation. An orgasm that is reached by other parts of the body than the sexual organs.
An orgasm felt in the whole body as boundless state of ecstasy and love that can last for hours.

You should not expect to experience this kind of whole body orgasm until the sexual blockages and inhibitions have been dissolved. This usually happens gradually and might need more sessions.
This massage can be given by one or two women at the same time. The massage is a body to body massage where the masseuse(s) are creatively using their hands, hair and other parts of the body, but no sexual intercourse is taking place. It is not in any case accepted to ejaculate during the massage.

a tantric massage for men

a tantric massage for men

Erotic massage

A very affective, deeply relaxing massage that is given with gentle feather-light strokes of the fingertips. All of the body is caressed, but the touch is not sexual.

The erotic massage brings you back to your true nature. It awakens and heals the energies of the heart and opens you up to both giving and receiving love. It eliminates stress and psychic tension and leaves you in a state of deep love.
Sexual continence implies fully conscious control over the sexual functions of the man or woman.
As a superior form of eroticism, sexual continence permits the biological transmutation of the creative sexual potential into superior forms of vital, psychic, mental, spiritual energies, gearing some ineffable inner sublimation processes.

London tantric massage will open up all your subtle energy meridians leading to all kinds of profound benefits.
You will feel refreshed and invigorated after a tantric massage which goes deeply into all the subtle energy structures surrounding your body creating a deep purification of the skin, muscles and internal organs.

All kinds of psychological tensions will also be released by this deeply efficient and effective massage.
What makes this massage form so much more efficient than other types of massage is that it directly applies and channels the erotic energy to heal the body, mind and soul.
The ancient science and art of tantra advocates to flow and refine the sexual energy instead of allowing it to go to waste as is the case when men ejaculate and women have explosive orgasms.

Tantric Massage Duration:
Approximately 1½ hours

Prices:
tao or tantric massage:
– 150 £ simple (2 hands)
– 300 £ double (4 hands)
-for every 5 sessions, the sixth one is our free present for your fidelity (during a period of 2 months starting with the first session)

relaxation massage:
– 100 £ simple (2 hands)
– 200 £ double (4 hands)

* please note that the prices are different from a country to another.

No sexual intercourse is taking place.

Tantric Massage for Couples

A special initiation for women:

Most of the women are unfortunately used to that when a man touches them in a pleasant way it is because he wants something in return. To give an erotic massage without expecting anything in return is one of the greatest gifts to be given. The teaching consists of a little theory and a lot of practice.

London Tantric massage couple

You will bring you girlfriend/lover and the massage will be demonstrated on her by an experienced tantric massage teacher. You will experience that everything happens at a slow pace in deep respect of the woman and her limits.

First you will have a cup of tea with the teacher while talking about what the treatment consists of and what is expected from the giver and the receiver.
best tantric temple in LondonYou will also have a short introduction to the philosophy behind the treatment. Then begins the massage itself – the woman is naked while the men keep his shorts on. She lies face down and during the next 2 hours the teacher and the student will transform her into a soft, sensual and receptive goddess! The teacher explains and shows the techniques and the student imitates…
Finally you will talk all three about the experience and the teacher will answer all your questions.

The first time will be worked only with the body to body massage.

Second time the body massage is repeated and if everybody feels ready for it the student will be taught to massage the yoni of the woman (read more about the yoni massage here).
Third time the student will have the chance to show what he has learned – the teacher will help and guide staying more in the background.
To get the maximum result from the course it is highly recommended to train at home at least once between two sessions.

 

Learn more about Tantric Massage for Men and Tantric Massage for Women

Duration:
Approximately 2 hours

Prices:
-300 £ for one single session
-for every 5 sessions, the sixth one is our free present for your fidelity (during a period of 2 months starting with the first session)
No sexual intercourse is taking place.

the Modern Tantra

Lately, Tantra has become a bit of a buzz word, and if you search on the internet you will find countless pictures of lovely naked ‘goddesses’ promising all kinds of heavenly pleasures. As with many teachings from the east, the western world has been very creative in its understanding and practical interpretation of Tantra.

the tantraKamasutra Modern understanding of tantra has blended the ancient teachings and wisdom of the east with the insights of modern western psychology.. When translated into our day to day experience, it has come to be understood as a way of living more consciously, with more harmony and love in our life. We have a sense of inner fulfillment, our soul is nourished – we become more open hearted, spontaneous, inwardly peaceful and content and more able to nourish and empower others as well as ourself and to relate in a more honest, intimate and authentic way.

We also begin to experience the magic and spiritual dimension of our sexual/sensual energies – hence the expression ‘sacred sex’. The kundalini energy, which lies dormant at the base of the spine, when awakened, can lead to an elevated experience of our own sexual energy. We learn to to let go, to just be, to allow the the masculine and feminine energies within us to harmonise. As we become more open, in body, mind and spirit, we experience heightened and more fulfilling love and ecstasy within – we deepen our capacity for intimacy and our ability to identify and merge with the other in the transcendant experience of blissful oneness.